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What About Unanswered Prayer?

The Bible contains many promises about prayer, for instance:

Mark 11:22-24

22 And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.
23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.

Matthew 21:21-22

21 Jesus answered and said unto them, Verily I say unto you, If ye have faith, and doubt not, ye shall not only do this which is done to the fig tree, but also if ye shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; it shall be done.
22 And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

Similar promises can be found in 1 John 5:14-15, John 14:13-14, 15:16, 16:23-24, Matthew 7:7-11, Luke 11:5-13, and Psalm 50:15, 86:7. Some of these, like the passages printed above, seem to have no caveats whatsoever, in their context.

Yet, the fact is, Christians ask for many things that they don't receive. Why?

The reason why prayer goes unanswered, despite passages like those printed above, is that prayer is a large topic in Scripture, and all of the promises and statements about prayer must be taken as a whole - never in isolation. This means that any passage that mentions a hindrance to prayer being answered gives implied context to all the other passages about prayer, even if they don't reiterate that particular caveat themselves.

Hindrances to Answered Prayer

There are many passages which prominently mention hindrances to prayers being answered, and those hindrances are:

  • Having doubt as to whether God will answer the prayer (James 1:5-8, Mark 11:22-24, Matthew 21:21-22)
  • Not asking for things in "the name of" Christ - which means in accordance with the will of Christ (1 John 5:14-15, John 14:13-14, 15:16, 16:23-24)
  • Living an immoral life (2 Chronicles 7:14, Psalm 34:15-16, 66:18, Proverbs 21:13, 28:9, Isaiah 59:1-2, John 15:7: 1 Peter 3:7, 3:12: 1 John 3:22)
  • Making an ostentatious show of the actual prayer (Matthew 6:5-6)
  • Chanting the prayer (Matthew 6:7)
  • Having ulterior motives for what you're asking for (James 4:2-3)
  • Potentially - we are told nothing about how common this is - spiritual warfare that is out of our control (Daniel 10:12-13)
  • God having some purpose of His own for not answering the prayer (2 Corinthians 12:7-9)

By looking at the above, we can make two broad categories of hindrances - moral failures by the person praying, or the fulfillment of the prayer not being in God's will.

Moral failure is inevitable if you're a Christian (1 John 1:8), and God has different expectations for different individuals (Luke 12:48), depending on a variety of factors specific to them. You don't have to be perfect to get a prayer answered, but you must live to whatever reasonable standard God expects of you at this point in your Christian walk. This isn't defined explicitly, anywhere, so strive to live as free from sin as you possibly can.

The request not being answered if it isn't in God's will is kind of common sense. Why would God answer a prayer that will be ultimately detrimental to the person praying? If something is outside of God's will, it's less than perfect, and so rightfully shouldn't be answered. In this case, a "no" is the best possible answer to receive. Having a robust knowledge of the Word of God is the best way to get an idea as to whether something is in God's will, however, as we see in 2 Corinthians 12:7-9, God's will for individuals may be specific to them.

So, why pray if the only things that will be answered are things that are in the will of God anyway? Because the Bible is very clear, in almost all of these promises, that there are things that you will get if you pray, which you would not have gotten otherwise (James 4:2, etc.). Prayer does make a difference, but it has some parameters. Don't let that discourage you.

Conclusion

I don't claim to have all the answers as to why specific prayers may not be answered. Sometimes, unanswered prayer puzzles me as much as it does anyone. There is no recourse beyond humbly knowing that God is in Heaven, and sees the end from the beginning, therefore will do precisely what should be done in any circumstance.